Big days, big deals, big anything happen less than we expect or more accurately, we hope for by chance. ‘Sooner or later something will come along’ is a dangerous strategy, kept alive by an often very rose-tinted memory of past luck.
Expect to achieve small things often enough and actually do them every day, big things happen.
You just need to be patient, do small, and adjust your expectations.
Life is disappointing with the wrong expectations and seeking big.