Often we hear that there are two choices. Carry-on or give in, fit in or f… off and so on. It’s my way or the highway.
There are many more choices between these two extremes.
Nothing has to be black or white, in or out.
Life is better without extremes, without ultimatums, no need for guns to the head.
All we need to do is to imagine more choices, imagine better options and avoid win/lose situations where rarely anyone ‘wins’.
The 3rd or 4th or even 50th choice might just be something that will make a difference for all.